i lost her today







what the hell is happening






:(

life will go on, you'll get over it, and then wonder why you gave a shit in the first place.

murder suicide imo

life will go on, you'll get over it, and then wonder why you gave a shit in the first place.


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life will go on, you'll get over it, and then wonder why you gave a shit in the first place.

I have SP's Farewell and Goodnight on repeat. What's the matter with me.

what's the matter with me

what's the matter with me

you still listen to the smashing pumpkins

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i found her! she's always in the last place you look

i'm going on a date on monday! with the first girl i've actually really wanted to be involved with since my last major relationship went sour! hooray for progress!

sorry to rub it in man, that sucks. :(

just thought i'd save us all another one of my threads.

did you check your pockets?

dude I know I go out of my way to turn around every thread to address the fact that I just broke up with my g/f, but now I can actually say something.


There is no worse hell. My relationship was great! We had been dating a little over two years and knew each other inside and out, but constantly laughed and had a great time, and then she just calls me up (I had to go away to work for the summer) and says she wants to break up. All she said was that "she didn't love me anymore" and then when I asked questions about it she kept being like 'oh you were a great boyfriend blah blah blah' ..

Now like what... 2 weeks later? I find out shes already dating some fucking loser douche who only won her over with flattery... guys a total fuckbag and will probably get away with shit I always took flack for.

What a bitch.

makes me sick... I can't stop rooting through her facebook its such a dumb move on my part..

what's her myspace bro?

Ttravis Mmeekz

well that'd be an odd coincidence

i've learned that i project an emotionally crippling sense of loss stemming from an event over 10 years ago that i've never gotten over onto unrelated situations, aka current breakup. so uh.. if you can avoid doing something like that, it'd probably be a good move.

i've learned that i project an emotionally crippling sense of loss from an event over 10 years ago that i've never gotten over from onto unrelated situations, aka current breakup. so uh.. if you can avoid doing something like that, it'd probably be a good move.

yeah... sometimes its hard not to freeze up after really bad breakups/losses etc. you have to try hard not to.

i'm playing scrabble against a dominican nun who said that she likes to play fast.. it's been nearly 15 minute since her last move.. what a liar!

There is no worse hell. My relationship was great! We had been dating a little over two years and knew each other inside and out, but constantly laughed and had a great time, and then she just calls me up (I had to go away to work for the summer) and says she wants to break up. All she said was that "she didn't love me anymore" and then when I asked questions about it she kept being like 'oh you were a great boyfriend blah blah blah' ..

Now like what... 2 weeks later? I find out shes already dating some fucking loser douche who only won her over with flattery... guys a total fuckbag and will probably get away with shit I always took flack for.

What a bitch.

this is EXACTLY what happened to me

i'm playing scrabble against a dominican nun who said that she likes to play fast.. it's been nearly 15 minute since her last move.. what a liar!

Dude, I'm sorry, mang. Must be tough. :(

I'm going to go be emo and record a depressing song now.

See you guys tomorrow.

You know...since my plans of an afternoon with her have now gone out the window.

Crap.

Dude, I'm sorry, mang. Must be tough. :(

for real. maybe one day you'll learn the true meaning of pain like me

it's been over 2 hours. i had to go out and slam some brrrrrrrrrrrs with my bros. so glad to have them here

suffocation
no breathing
don't give a fukk if i cut my arm, bleeding

since we're all bitching here,

i found out not too long ago that my ex was lying and whoring around with her ex through what was probably 2 years of our 3 years together.

i'm not doing so well. like at all.

is that B or whatever?

Don't you live with her?

yes, it was her, and no, i haven't lived with her since like i think march.

we stayed in contact up until recently, though.

it's slowly killing me inside :)

fuck, man. B did that to you? bitch

suffocation
no breathing
don't give a fukk if i cut my arm, bleeding

http://www.letsgetpunk.com/upload/photos/coby_dick_john.jpg

what a sensitive guy!

fuck, man. B did that to you? bitch
yup.

she's got issues i couldn't even begin to help fix.

what a bitch D :(

yeah, i vented on my myspace blog (which is set to friends only), two really long entries, and that helped it a little.

i couldn't sleep or eat for like, 3 days. i may actually be falling back into that pattern.

i'm playing scrabble against a dominican nun who said that she likes to play fast.. it's been nearly 15 minute since her last move.. what a liar!

this is EXACTLY what happened to me

yeah, i vented on my myspace blog (which is set to friends only), two really long entries, and that helped it a little.

i couldn't sleep or eat for like, 3 days. i may actually be falling back into that pattern.

ahhh it stops and starts for me too... you're situation sounds a little worse with the cheating and all...

Now I have all summer to get in shape + refine myself .... because the only thing that makes me feel better is me topping her new life with retard-boy by being a much more appealing person. The goal isn't really to get her back... I'm not sure if the goal is very healthy to begin with ...but it sure is cathartic. It's a good excuse to stay on track with the regiment too I guess.

dude I know I go out of my way to turn around every thread to address the fact that I just broke up with my g/f, but now I can actually say something.


There is no worse hell. My relationship was great! We had been dating a little over two years and knew each other inside and out, but constantly laughed and had a great time, and then she just calls me up (I had to go away to work for the summer) and says she wants to break up. All she said was that "she didn't love me anymore" and then when I asked questions about it she kept being like 'oh you were a great boyfriend blah blah blah' ..

Now like what... 2 weeks later? I find out shes already dating some fucking loser douche who only won her over with flattery... guys a total fuckbag and will probably get away with shit I always took flack for.

What a bitch.

This also happened to me... almost. She said that shit. Said she felt "butterflies" when she was around some guy, who turned out to be a good friend. They had some hand holding and stupid shit like that. But then, a couple days later she totally changed her mind and decided she wanted to be with me forever. Girls will throw away massively important relationships for "butterflies", it seems, and that's the cold truth.

That sucks, D.

Hope you don't fall too deep back into the pattern, or for too long. :( I remember when that happened to me. It got so bad, I had to visit a gastroenterologist who prescribed me some special pills for all the weight loss, vomiting, and other stomach problems every morning. (This was after being cheated on)

Being cheated on fucking sucks. I feel lucky I found out pretty early in the relationship but I can at least empathize a bit. I broke it off immediately (I walked in on them), spent the next solid month questioning everything and feeling like shit. It pretty much ruined men for the next year for me.

Being cheated on fucking sucks. I feel lucky I found out pretty early in the relationship but I can at least empathize a bit. I broke it off immediately (I walked in on them), spent the next solid month questioning everything and feeling like shit. It pretty much ruined men for the next year for me.

were they actually having sex at the moment you walked in?

Yep, on the couch. He had given me one of his spare keys in case he ever locked himself out. I had never used it before and just went there to drop off one of his books in between classes. I threw the book and the key at him and left.

Yep, on the couch. He had given me one of his spare keys in case he ever locked himself out. I had never used it before and just went there to drop off one of his books in between classes. I threw the book and the key at him and left.

Oh man that sucks...

I keep running over my ex doing things with her new boyfriend ... makes me so uncomfortable ... If I saw it with my own two eyes I'd probably go insane.

Oh man that sucks...

I keep running over my ex doing things with her new boyfriend ... makes me so uncomfortable ... If I saw it with my own two eyes I'd probably go insane.
^ shut up

jesus

DEL

i found her! she's always in the last place you look

you always lift the spirit to the troposphere :')

bitches is bitches

OMG PLZ DELETE EVERYTHIUNGNINNTYHIS THIS THREAD

i dont know, these things seem inevitable, in the end.
its going to take me a truly long time to give everything i have to a chick.
i mean, right now i'm with my current gf for about 4 months, and i keep reminding myself
that i don't want to really become attached. i always keep somewhat of a safe distance.

surely that's not much for a solution, but situations that tend to happen with girls that way
are WAY too much for me if im in over my head.

i mean, right now i'm with my current gf for about 4 months, and i keep reminding myself
that i don't want to really become attached. i always keep somewhat of a safe distance.



I did this and it backfired totally on me. When we broke up she said part of her felt like I expected her to leave. There was more to it though, but it can be a dangerous tactic.

yeah, my ex did the old 'seamless transition', too. then i think he dumped her about a week before she was to go away, so she comes back to me, and now wants me to do the long distance thing with her. 1200kms. ahhhhh.

dude I know I go out of my way to turn around every thread to address the fact that I just broke up with my g/f, but now I can actually say something.


There is no worse hell. My relationship was great! We had been dating a little over two years and knew each other inside and out, but constantly laughed and had a great time, and then she just calls me up (I had to go away to work for the summer) and says she wants to break up. All she said was that "she didn't love me anymore" and then when I asked questions about it she kept being like 'oh you were a great boyfriend blah blah blah' ..

Now like what... 2 weeks later? I find out shes already dating some fucking loser douche who only won her over with flattery... guys a total fuckbag and will probably get away with shit I always took flack for.

What a bitch.

:rofl: fucking SNAP

Girls will throw away massively important relationships for "butterflies", it seems, and that's the cold truth.

I will carry this mantra.

yeah, my ex did the old 'seamless transition', too. then i think he dumped her about a week before she was to go away, so she comes back to me, and now wants me to do the long distance thing with her. 1200kms. ahhhhh.

well this thread is depressing

i'm sorry, everyone

dude I know I go out of my way to turn around every thread to address the fact that I just broke up with my g/f, but now I can actually say something.


There is no worse hell. My relationship was great! We had been dating a little over two years and knew each other inside and out, but constantly laughed and had a great time, and then she just calls me up (I had to go away to work for the summer) and says she wants to break up. All she said was that "she didn't love me anymore" and then when I asked questions about it she kept being like 'oh you were a great boyfriend blah blah blah' ..

Now like what... 2 weeks later? I find out shes already dating some fucking loser douche who only won her over with flattery... guys a total fuckbag and will probably get away with shit I always took flack for.

What a bitch.

#1 - chances are it wasn't 'out of the blue' and you just failed to recognize the signs
#2 - chances are she broke up with you because of that other dude, and didn't just start dating him "2 weeks later"

you're really naive

#1 - chances are it wasn't 'out of the blue' and you just failed to recognize the signs
#2 - chances are she broke up with you because of that other dude, and didn't just start dating him "2 weeks later"

you're really naive

I obviously notice the signs now. Its hard to see it when you're having a great time together, and I never really questioned the relationship because of that.

as for #2, she had a date lined up with a different guy who bailed on her and the guy she is now currently dating just filled his place. So I mean she obviously just wanted to hop on some other guy, whoever it may be - that is what she wanted ...that much is clear.

what is her myspace

obviously

http://www.myspace.com/obviously

tough break, she looks good. especially if she's one of the two on the left

i dunno far left one could be a fatty

her face kinda looks photoshopped