I'm Hardcore
09-11-2007, 03:07 AM
...do you care about what others think of you?
i care too much for my own good :erm: its not healthy
i care too much for my own good :erm: its not healthy
View Full Version : to what extent... I'm Hardcore 09-11-2007, 03:07 AM ...do you care about what others think of you? i care too much for my own good :erm: its not healthy I'm Hardcore 09-11-2007, 03:09 AM this is a serious thread, by the way Ol' Couch Ass 09-11-2007, 03:10 AM I care far more in the professional world than I do in the personal one. Fattening Ass 09-11-2007, 03:11 AM hm i care a bit, don't know if i care enough to let it bother me ? sometimes. Ever 09-11-2007, 05:06 AM Why, to the the greatest extent Future Boy 09-11-2007, 05:15 AM Person I pass on the street, not at all. Classmates/co-workers, a bit. Friends/family, enough to bother. talk show host 09-11-2007, 05:16 AM Why would you waste time caring about what other people think? I mean if people who really love you are worried because they think you're doing something to hurt yourself, then I'd say listen (like if they do a drug intervention or something for example), but otherwise what's the point? I'm Hardcore 09-11-2007, 05:18 AM its not something i consciously adhere to talk show host 09-11-2007, 05:23 AM I don't think it is usually. I'd be lying if I said I didn't consider what other people's perceptions of me are, but generally I make the strongest efforts to keep any considerations in perspective. BumbleBeeMouth 09-11-2007, 05:24 AM In terms of potential ridicule, not in the slightest, in terms of causing offence, a little unless they are being oversensitive dickheads. Ever 09-11-2007, 05:27 AM I'm probably completely unsure as to my opinions on this subject. I know that it makes me sad if no one wants to hang out with me. tcm 09-11-2007, 05:35 AM to the extent that they will be more receptive to my ideas and ideals in the interests of a better tomorrow for everyone. pale blue eyes 09-11-2007, 05:35 AM The only time I really care is when I do something I feel is embarrassing in public, then it feels a bit overwhelming but I honestly think most of the time I put too much stock into that. I was an awkward adolescent and teen but I have grown into that and do not really feel the need to try hard to make myself seem the contrary. brendo_91 09-11-2007, 05:38 AM i am overwhelmed each and every moment of every day, by worry of what others think of me. tcm 09-11-2007, 05:38 AM to the extent that they will be more receptive to my ideas and ideals in the interests of a better tomorrow for everyone. now that has an admittedly lofty ring to it, but it can just as well boil down to simple things like agreeing on who should pick up the check (it's your turn btw). I'm Hardcore 09-11-2007, 05:39 AM i am overwhelmed each and every moment of every day, by worry of what others think of me. if you're joking, you're an asshole. Shapan 09-11-2007, 06:01 AM its completely natural to worry usually i dont, but sometimes with my friends i do worry if i feel like they second guess me on certain things.. i like to pretend like i dont care but certain things do get to me, and it can get annoying. but with random strangers that i meet at a party, i usually dont give a fuck. unless im on an awkward high. brendo_91 09-11-2007, 06:10 AM if you're joking, you're an asshole.unfortunately not, man. i worry all the time about everything... it makes every little thing the most horrible gutwrenching experience. I'm Hardcore 09-11-2007, 06:27 AM unfortunately not, man. i worry all the time about everything... it makes every little thing the most horrible gutwrenching experience. well, you're kind of like me then. rejoice! Mo 09-11-2007, 06:29 AM I don't really care about how other people feel about my looks, I just hate it if they find me to be annoying. dean_r_koontz 09-11-2007, 07:17 AM i care more and more. now i actually make an effort to be nice, whereas without medication i used to just grunt occasionally. I'm Hardcore 09-11-2007, 07:28 AM around people i havent previously met, its worse. im pretty good at masking it though. alisonmonster 09-11-2007, 08:29 AM i only care if its someone i like/respect (or someone thats important for work reasons). otherwise, i really don't care. brendo_91 09-11-2007, 09:04 AM check out glasgowkiss's sig at some point if you don't believe me - the time when i ruined my guitarist's birthday surprise. JessiMercury 09-11-2007, 09:45 AM i used to have major anxiety over what people thought about me. now i have major anxiety over my personal health and the health of my friends and family. i have super panic-hypochondriac attacks. i've ended up in the emergency room from them. this is why i'm a huge pothead. it actually helps with my anxiety 95% of the time. GlasgowKiss 09-11-2007, 09:50 AM I care a little, if its something bizarre i want to do i dont care at all what people think of me for it, if i do something dumb when i should have known better it irks me. mxzombie 09-11-2007, 10:11 AM i worry a lot about what my neighbors in my building think. i try not to make too much noise and it gets to me if i have people over who are noisy. j u n e 09-11-2007, 10:31 AM to a pitifully low extent, probably. Rockin' Cherub 09-11-2007, 10:39 AM i can't pin down the exact degree in words, but i know it's an irrationally high extent i don't know if that's such a bad thing though i just always fuck up and draw the wrong conclusions dean_r_koontz 09-11-2007, 10:47 AM shyness seems to be a sort of self awareness that has just gone out of control. usually quite dull people are shy dean_r_koontz 09-11-2007, 10:48 AM and then there is the people who just lack much interest in social interaction. those people are more interesting generally. i'd put mayfuck in the shy category and smurfing in the latter |