Orenthal James
11-15-2005, 07:44 AM
i went home to visit friends during the long weekend, and her friend french-kissed me at a bar. after about a second and a half i pulled away.
they've been friends for about five years now, and she's quite protective. he was innebriated to the point that he had to take a cab home early shortly after the incident -- she was also sitting a couple of feet away when it happened, but apparently didn't see it.
i'm thinking he perhaps forgot that he was there with friends for a short bit, i don't know. i don't want this incident to ruin their relationship, but if he made a habit of such promiscuity then of course i would want her to know about.
and i don't want her to perhaps hold this against me, or lose trust in me, which of course would also happen if she found out from someone else.
perhaps this is a no-brainer, and telling her is obviously the right thing to do, but i'm not so certain i should.
also note, that i had just met him, and won't be in contact with either of them until christmas vacation, most likely.
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they've been friends for about five years now, and she's quite protective. he was innebriated to the point that he had to take a cab home early shortly after the incident -- she was also sitting a couple of feet away when it happened, but apparently didn't see it.
i'm thinking he perhaps forgot that he was there with friends for a short bit, i don't know. i don't want this incident to ruin their relationship, but if he made a habit of such promiscuity then of course i would want her to know about.
and i don't want her to perhaps hold this against me, or lose trust in me, which of course would also happen if she found out from someone else.
perhaps this is a no-brainer, and telling her is obviously the right thing to do, but i'm not so certain i should.
also note, that i had just met him, and won't be in contact with either of them until christmas vacation, most likely.
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