Because I have feelings for a man almost twice my age. He's 40. Uh. Isn't that the most ridiculous thing you've ever heard? And now I'm going to be alone for the rest of my life. That is all.

pretty intense, does this 40 year old dude like you too?

Congrats.

Nobody on the road
Nobody on the beach
I feel it in the air
The summer's out of reach
Empty lake, empty streets
The sun goes down alone
I'm drivin' by your house
Though I know you're not at home

But I can see you-
Your brown skin shinin' in the sun
You got your hair combed back and your sunglasses on, baby
And I can tell you my love for you will still be strong
After the boys of summer have gone

I never will forget those nights
I wonder if it was a dream
Remember how you made me crazy?
Remember how I made you scream
Now I don't understand what happened to our love
But babe, I'm gonna get you back
I'm gonna show you what I'm made of

I can see you-
Your brown skin shinin' in the sun
I see you walkin' real slow and you're smilin' at everyone
I can tell you my love for you will still be strong
After the boys of summer have gone

Out on the road today, I saw a DEADHEAD sticker on a Cadillac
A little voice Inside my head said, "Don't look back. You can never look back."
I thought I knew what love was
What did I know?
Those days are gone forever
I should just let them go but-

I can see you-
Your brown skin shinin' in the sun
You got that top pulled down and that radio on, baby
And I can tell you my love for you will still be strong
After the boys of summer have gone

I can see you-
Your brown skin shinin' in the sun
You got that hair slicked back and those Wayfarers on, baby
I can tell you my love for you will still be strong
After the boys of summer have gone

Nobody on the road
Nobody on the beach
I feel it in the air
The summer's out of reach
Empty lake, empty streets
The sun goes down alone
I'm drivin' by your house
Though I know you're not at home

But I can see you-
Your brown skin shinin' in the sun
You got your hair combed back and your sunglasses on, baby
And I can tell you my love for you will still be strong
After the boys of summer have gone

I never will forget those nights
I wonder if it was a dream
Remember how you made me crazy?
Remember how I made you scream
Now I don't understand what happened to our love
But babe, I'm gonna get you back
I'm gonna show you what I'm made of

I can see you-
Your brown skin shinin' in the sun
I see you walkin' real slow and you're smilin' at everyone
I can tell you my love for you will still be strong
After the boys of summer have gone

Out on the road today, I saw a DEADHEAD sticker on a Cadillac
A little voice Inside my head said, "Don't look back. You can never look back."
I thought I knew what love was
What did I know?
Those days are gone forever
I should just let them go but-

I can see you-
Your brown skin shinin' in the sun
You got that top pulled down and that radio on, baby
And I can tell you my love for you will still be strong
After the boys of summer have gone

I can see you-
Your brown skin shinin' in the sun
You got that hair slicked back and those Wayfarers on, baby
I can tell you my love for you will still be strong
After the boys of summer have gone

aww. a while ago i think you've mentioned this guy. a few times, i think, and i remember getting the sensation that your feelings were pretty strong and were sort of eclipsing your established boyfriend. so all i have to say i guess is that it sucks that something as significant as a 5 yr relationship is ended, but you should hold your head high for taking the route of being up front about your feelings and having enough respect for the exboyfriend to end things with him before moving on to the other guy. (assuming that's how it went)

Originally posted by big white horse hung
aww. a while ago i think you've mentioned this guy. a few times, i think, and i remember getting the sensation that your feelings were pretty strong and were sort of eclipsing your established boyfriend. so all i have to say i guess is that it sucks that something as significant as a 5 yr relationship is ended, but you should hold your head high for taking the route of being up front about your feelings and having enough respect for the exboyfriend to end things with him before moving on to the other guy. (assuming that's how it went)
I don't think it's gonna go that way. Honestly, I think it will probably all blow up in her face (sorry!), but I still wish her luck. She's hot but totally insane. It probably won't be hard for her to feed her insatiable sexual appetite if she so chooses.

I will regret this post when sober. Mark my words.

what's so special about mr. forty year old? you like his kids?

hot chink on chink action.

Originally posted by Black Somalian
hot chink on chink action.

disgusting.

Originally posted by noir cat
I have feelings for a man almost twice my age. He's 40. Uh. Isn't that the most ridiculous thing you've ever heard?

...nope...

wow ceci, so it's actually been a while since you've liked this older guy. i thought you and joe had split up a while ago...man im sorry.
i guess all i can say is follow your heart and if you really like the other dude and he likes you too go for it
:/

Originally posted by refills 79 cents
Nobody on the road
Nobody on the beach
I feel it in the air
The summer's out of reach
Empty lake, empty streets
The sun goes down alone
I'm drivin' by your house
Though I know you're not at home

But I can see you-
Your brown skin shinin' in the sun
You got your hair combed back and your sunglasses on, baby
And I can tell you my love for you will still be strong
After the boys of summer have gone

I never will forget those nights
I wonder if it was a dream
Remember how you made me crazy?
Remember how I made you scream
Now I don't understand what happened to our love
But babe, I'm gonna get you back
I'm gonna show you what I'm made of

I can see you-
Your brown skin shinin' in the sun
I see you walkin' real slow and you're smilin' at everyone
I can tell you my love for you will still be strong
After the boys of summer have gone

Out on the road today, I saw a DEADHEAD sticker on a Cadillac
A little voice Inside my head said, "Don't look back. You can never look back."
I thought I knew what love was
What did I know?
Those days are gone forever
I should just let them go but-

I can see you-
Your brown skin shinin' in the sun
You got that top pulled down and that radio on, baby
And I can tell you my love for you will still be strong
After the boys of summer have gone

I can see you-
Your brown skin shinin' in the sun
You got that hair slicked back and those Wayfarers on, baby
I can tell you my love for you will still be strong
After the boys of summer have gone

I know there's something in the wake of your smile.
I get a notion from the look in your eyes, yea.
You've built a love but that love falls apart.
Your little piece of heaven turns too dark.

Listen to your heart
when he's calling for you.
Listen to your heart
there's nothing else you can do.
I don't know where you're going
and I don't know why,
but listen to your heart
before you tell him goodbye.

Sometimes you wonder if this fight is worthwhile.
The precious moments are all lost in the tide, yea.
They're swept away and nothing is what is seems,
the feeling of belonging to your dreams.

And there are voices
that want to be heard.
So much to mention
but you can't find the words.
The scent of magic,
the beauty that's been
when love was wilder than the wind.

i did the same thing , noir cat. 5 years. But i was ready for it but my guilt for him was awful for a long time.

But congratulations! You'll have a new outlook on life now and you did the right thing instead of cheating on him or somthing. I hope you can feel the freedom you wanted now.

maybe you should have thought that a relationship with a 5 year old isn't going to work.

Originally posted by smashingjj
maybe you should have thought that a relationship with a 5 year old isn't going to work.

:erm

Originally posted by Mason R Butler

I don't think it's gonna go that way. Honestly, I think it will probably all blow up in her face (sorry!), but I still wish her luck. She's hot but totally insane. It probably won't be hard for her to feed her insatiable sexual appetite if she so chooses.


I agree with this 100%

Tonight it's very clear
As we're both standing here
There's so many things I want to say
I will always love you
I will never leave you alone

Sometimes I just forget
Say things I might regret
It breaks my heart to see you cryin'
I don't want to lose you
I could never make it alone

I am a man who would fight for your honor
I'll be the hero you're dreaming of
We'll live forever knowing together
That we did it all for the glory of love

You keep me standing tall
You help me through it all
I'm always strong when you're beside me
I have always needed you
I could never make it alone

I am a man who would fight for your honor
I'll be the hero you've been dreaming of
We'll live forever knowing together
That we did it all for the glory of love

Just like a knight in shining armor
From a long time ago
Just in time I will save the day
Take you to my castle far away

---- Instrumental Interlude ----

I am a man who would fight for your honor
I'll be the hero that you're dreaming of
We're gonna live forever knowing together
And we did it all for the glory of love

We'll live forever knowing together
That we did it all for the glory of love

We did it all for love
We did it all for love
We did it all for love
We did it all for love

Originally posted by smashingjj
maybe you should have thought that a relationship with a 5 year old isn't going to work. :D

I came into this world as a reject
Look into these eyes
Then you'll see the size of these flames
Dwellin on the past
Its burnin' up my brain
Everyone that burns has to learn from the pain

Hey I think about the day
My girlie ran away with my pay
When fellas came to play
No she stuck with my homeez that she fucked
And I'm just a sucker with a lump in my throat

Hey, like a chump
Hey, like a chump
Hey, like a chump
Hey, like a chump
Hey, like a chump
Hey, like a chump
Hey, like a chump
Hey, like a chump
Hey

Should I be feelin' bad? No
Should I be feelin good? No
Its kinda sad I'm the laughin' stock of the neighborhood
You would think that I'd be movin' on
But I'm a sucker like I said
Fucked up in the head, not!!

Maybe she just made a mistake
I should give her a break
My heart will ache either way
Hey, what the hell
Watcha want me to say
I wont lie that I cant deny


I did it all for the nookie
C'mon
The nookie
C'mon
So you can take that cookie
And stick it up your, yeah!!
Stick it up your, yeah!!
Stick it up your, yeah!!

I did it all for the nookie
C'mon
The nookie
C'mon
So you can take that cookie
And stick it up your, yeah!!
Stick it up your, yeah!!
Stick it up your, yeah!!


Why did it take so long?
Why did I wait so long, huh
To figure it out? but I did it
And I'm the only one underneath the sun who didn't get it

I cant believe that I can be deceived
By my so called girl, but in reality
Had hidden agenda
She put my tender heart in a blender
And still I surrendered

Hey, like a chump
Hey, like a chump
Hey, like a chump
Hey, like a chump
Hey, like a chump
Hey, like a chump
Hey, like a chump
Hey, like a chump
Hey


I did it all for the nookie
C'mon
The nookie
C'mon
So you can take that cookie
And stick it up your, yeah!!
Stick it up your, yeah!!
Stick it up your, yeah!!

I did it all for the nookie
C'mon
The nookie
C'mon
So you can take that cookie
And stick it up your, yeah!!
Stick it up your, yeah!!
Stick it up your, yeah!!


I'm only human
Its so easy for your friends to give you their advice
They tell you to let it go
But its easier said then done
I appreciate it
I do, but just leave me alone
Leave me alone
Just leave me alone!!
Just leave me alone!!


Aint nothin' gonna change
If you can go away
Im just gonna stay here and always be the same
Aint nothin' gonna change
If you can go away
Im just gonna stay here and always be the same
Aint nothin' gonna change
If you can go away
Im just gonna stay here and always be the same


I did it all for the nookie
C'mon
The nookie
C'mon
So you can take that cookie
And stick it up your, yeah!!
Stick it up your, yeah!!
Stick it up your, yeah!!

I did it all for the nookie
C'mon
The nookie
C'mon
So you can take that cookie
And stick it up your, yeah!!
Stick it up your, yeah!!
Stick it up your, yeah!!

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ceci, i hope things turn out okay but you know you're still really young and even if you decide later on that this was the wrong decision - you still have the rest of your life to make the right decisions. you could do worse things in life than following your heart. or maybe with you it was the nether regions that you were following. anyways. how did joseph take it? and what's so special about this old guy?

Originally posted by Oblivious
ceci, i hope things turn out okay but you know you're still really young and even if you decide later on that this was the wrong decision - you still have the rest of your life to make the right decisions. that's a terrible view to have

Originally posted by Nimrod's Son
that's a terrible view to have

so it's not acceptable to learn from your mistakes?

Originally posted by Oblivious


so it's not acceptable to learn from your mistakes?

i dont think nimrod's son thinks anything is acceptable unless he's done it.

if she didnt have feelings for the guy its not good to keep a lie going, not likes she married or anything.

Originally posted by Mason R Butler

I don't think it's gonna go that way. Honestly, I think it will probably all blow up in her face (sorry!), but I still wish her luck. She's hot but totally insane. It probably won't be hard for her to feed her insatiable sexual appetite if she so chooses.

I will regret this post when sober. Mark my words. Ha ha. I thought this was funny, though.

I neglected this post because the server was busy.

I think the feelings this other guy has for me is mutual, but he keeps avoiding me because he doesn't want to get hurt. Imagine, me, hurting someone. Oops, I guess that's already happened.

I've only broken up with my bf for a few days, but I feel like running back to him. WHich would be a total mistake. Although I did end up spending the night with him anyway, after we've broken up. He was clear about my feelings, though, and I said it was totally up to him. He wanted me to anyway.

My problem is, I'm hypersexual and want to have a lot of flings with other people. It's been surfacing for the past year and a half. It would be bad to stay in a relationship with me feeling that way. So I decided once and for all to clear the air.

Anyway.
I think eventually this other guy and I will end up doing it. Man, he is hot. For an older guy. And no, he doesn't have kids (that he knows of) nor has he EVER been married.

Goddammit, Mason, why aren't you fucking online!?!?!?!?!

Originally posted by **********
you had a boyfriend? You're probably kidding, but only for the last five years... : )

i think ive seen the old guy but never the boyfriend. (ex)boyfriend pix?

Originally posted by smashingjj
maybe you should have thought that a relationship with a 5 year old isn't going to work.

yeah, i heard redbreegull was pretty devastated

Originally posted by yo soy el mejor
i think ive seen the old guy but never the boyfriend. (ex)boyfriend pix? Uhhh, he hasn't been very willing to take pictures. This one is at least a year old...

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Breaking up with you boyfriend? I don't know, that just doesn't sound very american to me.

Originally posted by Oblivious


so it's not acceptable to learn from your mistakes?
No, it's a terrible philosophy to go out and make reckless decisions because "you have time to make up for mistakes"

That's just idiotic

Originally posted by Nimrod's Son

No, it's a terrible philosophy to go out and make reckless decisions because "you have time to make up for mistakes"

That's just idiotic
who said anything about recklessness

Originally posted by phaedrus

who said anything about recklessness Oblivious essentially justified any reckless or foolish decision because there's "time to make good ones later"

Originally posted by Nimrod's Son
Oblivious essentially justified any reckless or foolish decision because there's "time to make good ones later"

not quite. what i was actually implying was that if she decides later on that this was a mistake - she shouldn't dwell on it. she should consider it a learning experience that can help her make better decisions later on in life.

Originally posted by Nimrod's Son
Oblivious essentially justified any reckless or foolish decision because there's "time to make good ones later"

this is an excellent example of the faulty logic that plagues most of your arguments. in fact, it's pretty common amongst most of the political right in the US.

instead of sticking to the thesis, you jump all over vague supportive arguments, when you should really be concentrating on refuting the thesis itself if you really take issue with it.

this really isn't about your comment at all. you can ignore me if you so wish.

Now you can have lesbian sex!

Originally posted by noir cat
I think eventually this other guy and I will end up doing it. Man, he is hot. For an older guy. And no, he doesn't have kids (that he knows of) nor has he EVER been married. i've always liked him.

Originally posted by phaedrus


this is an excellent example of the faulty logic that plagues most of your arguments. in fact, it's pretty common amongst most of the political right in the US.

instead of sticking to the thesis, you jump all over vague supportive arguments, when you should really be concentrating on refuting the thesis itself if you really take issue with it.

this really isn't about your comment at all. you can ignore me if you so wish. :nooooo: :nooooo: :nooooo: :nooooo: :nooooo: :nooooo:

hahaha. just another dumb little slut who cant stand having only one guy bone her. netphoria is back!

we never left man

this doesn't change the fact that you are fat, ugly, and not white.

OMG ME TOOOOOO!

Originally posted by jaxx
hahaha. just another dumb little slut who cant stand having only one guy bone her. netphoria is back!
nevermind?

nah you guys were wrong. she's having a great time with the new guy.

Originally posted by coffee spoon
this doesn't change the fact that you are fat, ugly, and not white.


:rofl: HOT DOG COP!